Heads or Tails Uce?
HEADS OR TAILS UCE?
Written and Publish by : Lydia Rees
Talofa and welcome to another rant aka ugly excuse of a blog.
More often than not, when you flip a coin, you have very very very high chances of it landing on HEADS or TAILS, true? For a moment, lets ignore the fact that there is a very slight possibility that it would land on its side *rolls eyes*.
The other day when I was enjoying a fresh chicken Caesar wrap at McDonald's, I overheard a conversation between two Polynesian BOYS behind me that had me ready to throw hands.
ÿeah so there's this girl that I'm following on instagram and she is f***** sexy man"
"did you hit her up uce"
ÿeah I sent her a dm and asked her if she wanted to kick it"
ähhaha mah uce"
"bro every time we plan to meet up or something, she always has a family event or church aye"
"but that's the thing with girls of our kind aye, Samoan girls are cool until they decide to put everything else before you aye"
it would just be a lot easier to date a Samoan chick but have her dedicate her time only to you, and t keep it 100 all the time".
ÿeah remember that's what I said before. Like, Samoan girls are seki but those ones who are all 'god first' just make my dick soft"
ÿeah hard, and those chicks that get the malu done, unnecessary dudes, like we get it, you're Samoan hahah"
'HAHH".
Uce = short for Uso, meaning brother
Seki = Samoan derog terms for "cool"
Every time they took turns talking, professed to scoff at the stupidity of their conversation. Don't get me wrong, every one is entitled to their own opinion but some things just need to addressed to prevent future generation from making the same mistakes.
What seemed to annoy me the most about this conversation was just their lack of understanding when it came to "Samoan Chicks" and seemingly, its become more and more common for males to want a Samoan chick, but without the baggage. Now I speak on behalf of myself and the Samoan female community that I have encountered over the past 19 year. From young, Samoan girls are raised to be independent, to be strong, to be bold when necessary and to speak their minds when needed. Samoan girls are raised to understand the importance of religion, the importance of values and morals, and essentially, understanding the importance of Family. It is futile to want a relationship with a Samoan girl if you're just going to deprive her of what makes her different from other girls, other brown skinned girls ya know? Why bother dating a Samoan "chick" if you're not ready to accept all that she is and all that she stands for? Why not just date a palagi, or a saiga ya know? Before you entered her life, I am pretty sure that she already had morals, values, priorities and so why should she drop all those things and surrender to you like she is an object. Pfft, heck nah!
What really had my blood boiling was when they had the nerve, the audacity to then insult ones decision in getting a malu. For those who do not know what a Malu is, it is a Traditional tattoo tattooed on the thighs of a female. This tattoo is a special arrangement of symbols which all have a meaning, some meaning family, others meaning religion. For the wearer of the tattoo, it is clearly not just ink that was stabbed into the flesh but it is hundreds of years of culture, hundreds of years of traditions, it is representation of their pride in the Samoan culture. You can be le mafs and scream Cheehoo down queen street at the most unnecessary time to make it known that you're Samoan,but a female who has endured hours of pain to keep her culture alive, is now considered unnecessary? I tried to find the logic in that but I failed to understand the idiocy. Facebook status half the time is SAMOA TO THE OTI (meaning Samoa til death), yet you clearly are only a part time Samoan. I have to say though, I am not surprised that other Samoans put fellow Samoans down, which is nothing but disappointing.
Just before you decide to bad mouth another Samoan female or any female in general, flip that script real quick and put your sister in that position. Replace the name of the female you're bitchin' about with your mum's name or another female family members name. So rather than picking and choosing which part of a Samoan gal that you want and what you don't want, answer this, "heads or tails uce?
I know that I am going to be attacked once I publish this blog due to the fact that I say Sa-mow-an, as opposed to Sa-moh-un and also because I rarely ever speak the mother language, but guess what, I know who I am culturally, do you?
cya x
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For similar blog posts that I have previously done, please follow links below
Grind how you Grind - https://lydiarees11.blogspot.com/2017/11/grindhowyougrind-lydiarees.html
2017- 2018- http://lydiarees11.blogspot.com.au/2018/01/oh-hey-there-2018.html
Written and Publish by : Lydia Rees
Talofa and welcome to another rant aka ugly excuse of a blog.
More often than not, when you flip a coin, you have very very very high chances of it landing on HEADS or TAILS, true? For a moment, lets ignore the fact that there is a very slight possibility that it would land on its side *rolls eyes*.
The other day when I was enjoying a fresh chicken Caesar wrap at McDonald's, I overheard a conversation between two Polynesian BOYS behind me that had me ready to throw hands.
ÿeah so there's this girl that I'm following on instagram and she is f***** sexy man"
"did you hit her up uce"
ÿeah I sent her a dm and asked her if she wanted to kick it"
ähhaha mah uce"
"bro every time we plan to meet up or something, she always has a family event or church aye"
"but that's the thing with girls of our kind aye, Samoan girls are cool until they decide to put everything else before you aye"
it would just be a lot easier to date a Samoan chick but have her dedicate her time only to you, and t keep it 100 all the time".
ÿeah remember that's what I said before. Like, Samoan girls are seki but those ones who are all 'god first' just make my dick soft"
ÿeah hard, and those chicks that get the malu done, unnecessary dudes, like we get it, you're Samoan hahah"
'HAHH".
Uce = short for Uso, meaning brother
Seki = Samoan derog terms for "cool"
Every time they took turns talking, professed to scoff at the stupidity of their conversation. Don't get me wrong, every one is entitled to their own opinion but some things just need to addressed to prevent future generation from making the same mistakes.
What seemed to annoy me the most about this conversation was just their lack of understanding when it came to "Samoan Chicks" and seemingly, its become more and more common for males to want a Samoan chick, but without the baggage. Now I speak on behalf of myself and the Samoan female community that I have encountered over the past 19 year. From young, Samoan girls are raised to be independent, to be strong, to be bold when necessary and to speak their minds when needed. Samoan girls are raised to understand the importance of religion, the importance of values and morals, and essentially, understanding the importance of Family. It is futile to want a relationship with a Samoan girl if you're just going to deprive her of what makes her different from other girls, other brown skinned girls ya know? Why bother dating a Samoan "chick" if you're not ready to accept all that she is and all that she stands for? Why not just date a palagi, or a saiga ya know? Before you entered her life, I am pretty sure that she already had morals, values, priorities and so why should she drop all those things and surrender to you like she is an object. Pfft, heck nah!
What really had my blood boiling was when they had the nerve, the audacity to then insult ones decision in getting a malu. For those who do not know what a Malu is, it is a Traditional tattoo tattooed on the thighs of a female. This tattoo is a special arrangement of symbols which all have a meaning, some meaning family, others meaning religion. For the wearer of the tattoo, it is clearly not just ink that was stabbed into the flesh but it is hundreds of years of culture, hundreds of years of traditions, it is representation of their pride in the Samoan culture. You can be le mafs and scream Cheehoo down queen street at the most unnecessary time to make it known that you're Samoan,but a female who has endured hours of pain to keep her culture alive, is now considered unnecessary? I tried to find the logic in that but I failed to understand the idiocy. Facebook status half the time is SAMOA TO THE OTI (meaning Samoa til death), yet you clearly are only a part time Samoan. I have to say though, I am not surprised that other Samoans put fellow Samoans down, which is nothing but disappointing.
Just before you decide to bad mouth another Samoan female or any female in general, flip that script real quick and put your sister in that position. Replace the name of the female you're bitchin' about with your mum's name or another female family members name. So rather than picking and choosing which part of a Samoan gal that you want and what you don't want, answer this, "heads or tails uce?
I know that I am going to be attacked once I publish this blog due to the fact that I say Sa-mow-an, as opposed to Sa-moh-un and also because I rarely ever speak the mother language, but guess what, I know who I am culturally, do you?
cya x
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For similar blog posts that I have previously done, please follow links below
Grind how you Grind - https://lydiarees11.blogspot.com/2017/11/grindhowyougrind-lydiarees.html
2017- 2018- http://lydiarees11.blogspot.com.au/2018/01/oh-hey-there-2018.html
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